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Jonathan
53 Livermore, California, United States
Seeking: Female 37 - 52
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INTP-A (Logician) - Introverted*, iNtuitive, Thinking, Prospecting - Assertive *More Ambivert (A is not a MBTI category😃) Love languages: Physical Touch (35%) Words of Affirmation (32%) Acts of Service (15%) Quality Time (14%) Gifts (4%) In a nutshell, the above two describe me very accurately. So, I’m really sorry for initially being blunt, but hopefully I am respectful conveying the following… First of all, I will message people who: 1. Have a FULLY COMPLETED Profile - especially Personality Questions. 2. LIKE or, especially, FAVORITE me BACK. That is me initiating contact with you. If you’re not interested, I can respect that. Our feelings need to be mutual, right? So, please read my profile then decide. A real relationship takes EFFORT and COMMUNICATION. If your profile is complete, that indicates someone who is serious about CONNECTING. If we can’t start off with that, please let’s not waste each other’s time. It doesn’t have to be creative or witty, just give us a sense of who you are. One word answers or a short general sentence in the Personality Questions.“ I like the beach” may be adequate for someone less serious in his search, but not for me. I value substance in a woman. Not just a pretty face. There are many intriguing and eligible women on this site. It is encouraging, really. Yet, why are so many of the profiles here sparse, empty, or specifying information, like “single” already built into the profile page? Please, for your sake and your future partner, communicate. Personality Questions provide the opportunity to do just that, in a specific way that gives us an idea of WHO YOU ARE. Your values, dreams, desires, how you expect to be treated, deal-breakers, etc. It is only because I, for one, am looking for a REAL partner, which means open and genuine feedback. If you wonder why you can’t meet a quality man, or wondering “where are all the good ones” on here are, then I suggest you re-evaluate how much information is in your profile, and how real your answers are. It shows seriousness in finding the right person, honesty, a willingness to be vulnerable, and makes one (me) want to message you! A high value man wants a high value woman. Be that. Someone who knows herself, is able to express that, and wants a communicative partner, realizes that it is a two-way street. I am a high value man. That is why my profile is complete. I hope yours is too! So, see questions below... have a filled out profile with multiple photos for me to have interest. I am a photographer. One glamour shot doesn’t show the real YOU. Let us see your smile, and a close up or your eyes… the windows of your soul! I am unlikely to engage/communicate otherwise… especially if you’re wearing a Covid mask in your photo (Why???). It's only fair: let’s not waste either of our time. To me: 1. Paragraphless/empty Profile = Not serious. 2. Empty “More about me” = Not serious 3. Wearing a mask or no close-up = Hiding something 4. 1 photo, all filtered glamour shots, or no candids = Hiding something If I liked you, and you’re profile is sparse or incomplete, please update it so I’m more likely to initiate a message or reply to yours after you let me know it’s been updated. I do review my likes every so often hoping your profiles is completed. Ok rant over. 😉 That being said… I’m a chivalrous, nerdy romantic desiring mutual love, honesty & respect with a beautiful feminine soul. I’d do anything for my girl & expect the same. Intelligent, logical, creative, & efficient describe this romantic at heart. That is me INTP-A. Yet, I am an expressive, protective, romantic. I’m chivalrous to the core & believe in classic male/female roles. Very conservative in traditional values, but am a socially aware, open & sensitive nerd who is also contemporary & flexible. People say I’m a nice, extremely tolerant guy: empathetic, witty, driven, assertive, & confident in most situations. God fearing & longing for a marriage in which to thrive & model for others according to the Catholic Church. My status is Other because I’m getting divorced & applying for an annulment after uncovering she lied to me 24 years ago before we married.. Searching now for my true wife. Must be Catholic or interested in converting earnestly. I would love to share the beautiful truths I’ve experienced since coming back to Catholicism from being Agnostic and Protestant. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a religious zealot, nor preachy (despite my initial rant… 😂), but I am deeply faithful.. in an inner peace sort of way; which brings joy, love, and happiness to my life. I love sharing this within my family and hopefully with you. If you’re separated and have no plans to become divorced/annulled soon, please don’t waste my time. Although, honestly, it will take me some time to be able for me to fully open up, trust, and bond with the right girl. I was deeply hurt, but am not getting younger. It’ll take at least 3-6 months before I can really commit to someone legally. Let’s get acquainted as friends first. I don’t want to make another mistake choosing my lifetime partner. Thanks for understanding.
Marcus
40 West Des Moines, Iowa, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 42
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Amir
56 Cincinnati, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
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Bismillaah wal hamdulilaah wa salaatu was Salaamu alaa Rasulilaah! Salaam and Hello, I'd like to thank you for your interst and I hope that you have taken the time to read my profile! If You Are Still Married to Someone (Separated), Please, please, PLEASE, There is NO NEED TO CONTACT ME! I Can Not Talk to/Be Involved with another mans !!! This is Haram(unlawful) in Islaam, Get a Divorce!!! Also YOU MUST BE WILLING TO LEARN ABOUT ISLAAM AND BECOME MUSLIM, YOU MUST NOT BE MARRIED, No Drinking, NO Smoking or Any Drugs Thank you! If you are looking/hoping for some "Fairy-tale-life" then you are in the wrong place, you will only find Reality here! Life is a day to day struggle to please The Creator (this is my goal!) But that does NOT mean that we can't be HAPPY and live a Good Life in the process! Another thing I MUST Mention! I Am NOT into Material things and amassing material wealth, if this is your thing then again I say you are in the wrong place! A Woman can be a Jannah (Paradise/Garden) for her or she can be his Destruction! Starting Over Again searching for a virtuous woman, Allaah's Messenger said to choose the woman with religion or may your hands be smeared with dust(i.e. meaning or may you be destroyed!) No Drinking No Smoking No Sex Before ! I have gotten many, many Christian interests and I have no problems with this but there are conditions that will be discussed in private and you can decide if you would like to continue! As-Salaamu Alaikum ya amatullaah, I am very much interested in learning more about you in order to ascertain whether we are compatible! It's been over 20 years without a mate and during this time I have pondered over my many mistakes, al-hamdulilaah I have gained some knowledge and wisdom... I seek to find and complete my other half and correct the mistakes of my youth, inexperience and lack of wisdom In Shaa Allaah! In our youth, we make mistakes due to a lack of knowledge and wisdom but by those mistakes, we learn and wisdom is born... And Now Since We Know Better We Must Strive To Do Better! Please read my profile in full BaarakAllaahu Feeki wa Jazaaki Allaahu Khairan!!! I am always clean and neat and well-groomed in whatever I wear, and at all times I am able to be identified as a Muslim by those who are not Muslim! I am a voracious reader and learner, I am what is called an Autodidact, a Self Directed Learner! If there is something that I need to learn, I do what is necessary (get the books, join a class, get a coach, etc.) I Cultivate myself upon Salafiyyah polished by the Best of Islamic Adab and Akhlaq! The Importance of Adab (manners) and Akhlaq (character)... The Messenger of Allaah (Sallallaahu alaihi wa Sallam) said what mean: “I have not been sent as a Messenger, except to perfect character (Akhlaq)” He also said that: “The nearest of you to me on the Day of Judgement will be the one who is best in character.” (Bukhari) I follow the command of the Prophet (sallallaahu alaihi wa salaam) upon the understanding of the Sahabah (our Salaf-us-Saalih) to leave the beard as a grows and to trim the mustache and to dye the beard red... And to take CARE of and be GOOD to The Women! The Qur'an enjoins good treatment of one's : she is to be honored and treated kindly, even when one no longer feels the love in one's heart towards her. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “and live with them honorably. If you dislike them, it may be that you dislike a thing and Allaah brings through it a great deal of good” [al-Nisa’ 4:19] The Qur’aan explains that women have rights over their s, just as their s have rights over them. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And they (women) have rights (over their s as regards living expenses) similar (to those of their s) over them (as regards obedience and respect) to what is reasonable, but men have a degree (of responsibility) over them. And Allaah is All-Mighty, All-Wise” [al-Baqarah 2:228] This verse indicates that the man has additional rights, commensurate with his role as protector and maintainer and his responsibility of spending (on his ) etc. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) enjoined kind treatment and honoring of one’s , and he described the best of people as those who are best to their wives. He said: “The best of you are those who are the best to their wives, and I am the best of you to my wives.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 3895; Ibn Maajah, 1977; classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) spoke beautiful words concerning the kind treatment of one’s , stating that when the feeds his and puts a morsel of food in her mouth, he earns the reward of doing an act of charity. He said, “You never spend anything but you will be rewarded for it, even the morsel of food that you lift to your ’s mouth.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6352; Muslim, 1628 Knowing Better I Will Strive To Do Better!!! I take care to nourish my body mind and soul, taking care of them all, doing my best to remain balanced in all aspects of my life, it is a lifelong process and I hope to pass this on to you and our children bi'ithnillah (By the permission of Allah!) I try and train/workout 5-6 times a week and I am told that I look like I'm in my 30s... I will try to take and upload a few more pictures and you be the judge. I eat a Whole Foods Plant-Based Diet (No meat, dairy or eggs)! A Muslim Health Coach Spreading The Astonishing Benefits of A Whole Foods Plant-Based Diet & Lifestyle! Plant-Based Nutrition Certificate Program Graduate!

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